PERMANENCY OF MARRIAGE NO SEPARATION OR DIVORCE:
Malachi.2:14-16. Yet ye say, wherefore? Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth against whom thou hast dealt treacherously yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. And did not He make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit, and wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For the Lord God of Israel saith that He hateth putting away; for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts; therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously. The bible is very clear here that the Lord God hateth putting away (divorce and separation). God hates in all generation whatever you believe the Lord God hates divorce and remarriage. Marriage is for life. God expects a life-time family commitment from all there is no room for separation and divorce in God plan for marriage. God wants the man and his wife to live together until death do them part. To make marriage enjoyable you need to note these ten things.
(1) Talk with each other
(2) Trust each other
(3) Tell each other the truth always
(4) Treat each other with respect
(5) Treasure each other
(6) Thank and appreciate each other
(7) Tolerate each other
(8) Think of the good of each other
(9) Tease and taunt each other
(10) Talk no evil of each other but talk well of each other.
PEOPLE OF LIFE-TIME FAMILY COMMITMENT:
Here we want to see example people who demonstrated a life-time family commitment. Luk.1:5-7. Here we see the example of Zachariah and Elizabeth though they have some challenges in their family no child yet and they remained committed one to another. 1Sam.25:36. Here see the example of Abigail and Nabal. Though Nabal was a wicked person and a drunkard Abigail the wife remained faithful and committed to the marriage till the death of Nabal. Gen.24:67; Gen.25:19-21. Example of Isaac and Rebekah: Though Isaac married late at the age of forty and after the marriage there was delay in child bearing yet they remain committed to each other no divorce no separation. 2Chro.34:22. We see here the example of Huldah and Shallum. Huldah was the wife she was a very spiritual women but the husband was not all that spiritual and yet Huldah remained in the marriage faithfully. Judges.4:4. Deborah and Lapidoth: Deborah a prophetess remained committed to the marriage. Acts.18:2, 26, Rom.16:3; 1Cor.16:19. Aquila and Priscilla remained committed till death. All the people or preachers and pastors permitting divorce and remarriage are out of the will of God.
PROHIBITION OF SEPARATION OR DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE BY GOD:
Gen.2:21-25; Mal.2:14-16; Mt.19:3-6; Mk.10:6-12; Rom.7:1-3; Heb.13.4. We do not only learn from what God says but also we learn from what He did. At creation He created only one man and a woman. Not a man and two women or a woman and two men. Right from creation God want men to learn that there is no room for separation or divorce in marriage. He also commanded very clearly in the bible that there be no separation or divorce in marriage. And Jesus was asked a question on marriage He referred them to the beginning not to their culture or traditions. Our culture and tradition does not change the standard of the word of God, rather it is the word of God that should change our culture and traditions. When the Pharisees wanted to justify themselves they said but Moses permitted us to give a writing of divorce the Lord said Moses gave you that permission because of the hardness of your heart. Any person who has hardness of heart is not a child of God.
PRECEPTS FOR A SUCCESSFUL AND HAPPY MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE:
Dt.11:18-21. God’s desire and plans for our marriages and families and homes is to be heaven here on earth. In heaven there is joy, peace, satisfaction, fellowship, health, love etc. How can it be? Just follow the following precepts.
(1) Love one another Jh.13:34;
(2) Care one for another 1Cor.12:25;
(3) Forgive one another Eph.4:31-32;
(4) Be kind one to another Eph.4:32;
(5) Please one another by all legitimate way 1Cor.7:33-34;
(6) Pray one for another James.5:16;
(7) Be open one to another Gen.2:25;
(8) Serve one another Gal.5:13;
(9) Comfort one another 1Thess.5:11;
(10) Encourage one another Heb.10:24;
(11) Consider one another’s feels Heb.10:24;
(12) Do good to one another Pro.31:12; Gal.6:10;
(13) Edify one another 1Thess.5:11;
(14) Greet one another 1Cor.16:20;
(15) Be at peace one with another 1Thess.5:13.
MY PRAYER FOR YOU IS THAT GOD WILL HEAL ALL THE HURTS IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND GIVE YOU A LOVING AND PEACEFUL HOME.
HOW TO RECEIVE A MIRACLE
A miracle — the supernatural intervention of God. All of us have needed a miracle in the past, need one now, or will need of one in the future. The problem is that most Christians don't know how to receive a miracle from God.
The best advice is don't wait until a storm hits to learn how to believe God for a miracle. During a storm, emotions will cancel out your faith.
It's good to clarify the difference between a blessing and a miracle. A miracle is a supernatural intervention of God in a crisis situation. A blessing is still God's power, but it flows through natural channels. Blessings are better than miracles. If you live your life from one miracle to the next, you will live from crisis to crisis. It's better to be blessed with good health than to always need divine healing. God's will is for us to walk in blessing.
We all need a miracle at some time to simply jump-start our faith. If it weren't for miracles, we wouldn't grow to the point where we could walk in the blessings of God. Most Christians believe that God does miracles, but simply believing God is able to do it is not enough. You must know how to receive it.
Many Christians just wish and hope it happens. They think there is no way to grab a hold of miracles and make them happen. That's not what the Bible teaches.
God is predictable and orderly. He doesn't do one thing this time and another thing another time. God created this world and everything physical around us, and the physical world is orderly. God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He is forever faithful.
Faith is governed by laws. Romans 3:27 says, "Where is boasting then? It is excluded. By what law? of works? Nay: but by the law of faith." The kingdom of God operates under law. It is consistent. When someone is killed due to the law of gravity, we may wonder why God did that. He didn't, but there are laws that He put in place.
Gravity says that if you jump off a building, you will be killed. If you cooperate with God's laws, you will be fine. If you ignore those laws, you can be killed by the laws intended for your good. It's the same with the spiritual laws of God.
So, how do you receive a miracle from God? First, you must recognize that miracles are not just hit and miss. You can tap into a miracle. You learn the laws of God and how they work, and miracles will happen. I'm not saying you can push a button and God pops out or you can make God do whatever you want. I'm saying God is turned on all the time and any time, you get turned on, you can see the power of God operate. God is always wanting to move on your behalf. God is for you — He is a good God.
God's desire is for you to prosper (Ps. 35:27). God's will is for you to be healthy (3 John 2). God's will is for you to be above only and not beneath (Deut. 28:13).
You are the one who controls God's ability in your life. God doesn't. It is God's power and His ability, but it's up to you. The Scripture says in Ephesians 3:20, "Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us." Many people leave off that last phrase, "according to the power that worketh in us." If there is no power in you, you can stop God's intervention in your life. God has chosen to never violate your will. God has chosen to flow through you. Satan can't stop God's power, but you can. God wants you to have a miracle, but you have to stop waiting and start believing.
The most important miracle in the Bible is the virgin birth of Jesus. God came and lived in a physical body — now that's a miracle. The account is found in Luke 1.
The angel came and spoke to Mary of this miracle. The miracle happened when Mary answered (in verse 38), "Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word." When God creates, He speaks it into existence by His Word.
God did all His miracles by the spoken Word. In Genesis, He created the world by the spoken Word. Hebrews 11 tells us, "Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear." The important point is that your words are involved in your miracle.
Many Christians put prayer above all and believe that if you pray, it will happen. Prayer is like water or fertilizer that you put on the seed. But, without planting a seed, watering is useless. If God was moved by need, every person's need would be met. Also, those in the worst situations would get their needs met first. That's not true.
You must plant a seed, which is the Word of God. First Peter 1:23 says, "Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever." We are born again of incorruptible seed — the Word of God. The word "seed" in this scripture means sperm. We are born of a supernatural union and the seed of the Word of God.
Farmers believe that if you plant wheat, you get wheat. If you plant corn, you get corn. They don't question it — they are simply laws. Everybody agrees with that in the natural; but when it comes to spiritual things, most people don't believe that.
But the truth is, if you aren't reaping what the Word of God says, you haven't planted what the Word of God says to plant. You reap what you sow. If the Word of God is primary in your life, you're going to get the results of the Word of God. That doesn't mean Satan won't fight you and you won't have problems. The end result will be you're going to have what the Word of God says. Satan may fight you, but you'll win. Many of us know this intellectually, but in our hearts, there is fear or reservation. We don't have the absolute confidence that God's Word is going to prevail in our lives.
Romans 8:6 says, "For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace." If all you think about is the Word of God, that's all you'll get. You may not be thinking, I want to be sick, but your thinking has been sick. Proverbs 4:22 tells us that the Word of God is "life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh."
When God wanted to bring Jesus into the earth, He couldn't just create Jesus. God gave all authority over the earth to man. God did not rule directly over the affairs of the earth. After man blew it, God couldn't come down here and intervene. He had to work through man. God was looking for a man to flow through but couldn't find one. So, He had to come Himself (Is. 59:16). In the virgin birth, the Word of God was the seed. Everything else about the birth was natural. God spoke that miracle into existence.
I believe every one of us has a spiritual womb where the Word of God enters in and germinates, and we conceive a miracle. Sometimes you may receive a miracle as a gift through someone else's faith. You can't depend on someone else; God wants you to be able to conceive a miracle. Meditate on the Word day and night, and you will get spiritually pregnant and bring forth fruit.
It's impossible to have a miracle without planting the Word of God. One farmer thought he could violate the laws of God. He waited to plant wheat until everyone else's wheat was about ready to harvest. He planted $100,000 worth of wheat the month before harvest. When it didn't come up and he lost his money, he came and wanted me to pray. I told him that's not the way it works. You don't sow a crop when you want a crop. Some of us haven't had the seed planted in us, but we want the crop. There is a time of sowing and reaping (Gal. 6:9).
We don't just naturally grow up believing God. It takes renewing our minds. God's Word is the most important step to receive a miracle. Romans 10:17 says, "So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." You can't just know the Word intellectually. You must meditate on it so it becomes living and active on the inside of you. Most of us don't meditate on the Word as we should. We are occupied and don't have time, and we are upset with God when we don't receive our miracle. That's just as foolish as the man who didn't plant his seed but was upset when he didn't receive a crop.
If God's Word is planted in your heart, you'll receive. It doesn't matter what you feel — God's Word will produce a miracle.
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